摘要：本研究旨在调查了解我校大学生在择偶观上是否存在显著的性别差异，采用择偶偏爱清单对XX学院在校大学生群体以方便取样的方式进行问卷调查。共发放400份问卷，回收有效问卷389份，其中男生问卷102份，女生问卷287份。结果显示，总体均分“坦诚和值得信任”、“温暖、善良”以及“身体健康”等三个因素排在前三位，而性别差异具体体现在“很有赚钱的潜质”等17项因素上，经济取向维度上性别差异极其显著。结论：我校学生在择偶时更加看重“坦诚和值得信任”、“温暖、善良”以及“身体健康”等因素，我校女生在择偶时明显比男生更加看重经济方面的因素。

关键词：择偶观； 在校大学生； 性别差异

Abstract: This study aimed to find that if the students in Nanjing Xiaozhuang University show significant differences in mate preference by gender, and I used Traits Desired in a Mate to operate the questionnaire survey faced to the students in Nanjing Xiaozhuang University, sampling conveniently. I sent out 400 pieces of questionnaire in total, getting valid ones returned of 389 pieces, including 102 pieces of male and 287 of female. The result illustrated that the first three factors which the students in our school take in account when choosing a mate were "honest and trust worthy", "warm and kindhearted" and "healthy" respectively, while the gender differences showed in 17 factors taking "potential of making money" as an example, and in economic domain the differences between genders are the most. The conclusion was that the students in our school considered more about "honest and trust worthy", "warm and kindhearted" and "healthy", and the females pay more attention on economic factors than the males on mate preference in our school.

Key words: mate preference; college students; differences in gender

　　经过调查研究和对研究结果的讨论，得出这样的结论：

　　1.在性格取向、经济取向上，我校女生分数明显高于男生，说明我校女生在择偶时比男生更加关注这两个方面；而在生理取向上，男生的分数则是高于女生的，表明男生在择偶时比女生更加看重对方外貌等生理方面的因素。

　　2.我校在校大学生择偶观受传统文化影响较深，在很大程度上与传统的择偶观念不谋而合。