【摘要】本研究主要通过对留守儿童的家庭教养方式的实地研究，归纳分析爱的表达和接收。爱是人们心中最美好的情感，也是每个温馨家庭不可缺少的部分。然而，不同的行为方式，导致爱的表达和接收是不一样的。本研究通过参与观察和深度访谈发现：在留守家庭，隔代监护中以责任的方式表达爱是成问题的。

【关键词】留守儿童； 家庭教养方式； 爱的表达和接收； 责任

【Abstract】This field study is about family parenting styles of the left-behind children, whcih summaries and analyses the expression and reception of love. Love is the best part of human's deep inside, also, is indispensable to every family. However, the different behavior ways leads to the different expression and reception of love. Through involved observation and indepth interview, this case study find that, in the left-behind family, there are many problems between intergenerations: the love expressed by duty.

【Key words】the left-behind children; family parenting styles; expression and reception of love;   responsibility